Fate, Chances, Choices, Destiny

These were the few themes that ran throughout my 'A' lit text, Return of the Native. Looking back, i think i kinda agree with some of the thoughts that the writer was trying to bring across or at least what i thought the writer was trying to put across. I agree with him that throughout a person's life, he will be thrown with many chances and opportunities as it is in his fate that he should be put in such situation. Ultimately, what determines his destiny would be the choices that he make. If he makes the right choice of his fate then his destiny will turn out great but if he makes the wrong choice then maybe his life may not really turn out to be that perfect. Well, at least that's what i feel. I feel that certain things in my life were fated for it to happen but the choices that i made in handling those situation will ultimatly directly or indirectly determine the kind of destiny that i will have. Thus, i believe that fate is something that i might have no control over cos if something is fated to happen, it will happen no matter what but the choices that we make may ultimately determine our destiny thus, how our destiny turns out is within our control.


Fate made us cross paths but it is by choice that determined the status of our relationship!


Pondering over all the wrong/right choices i have made that have resulted in the kind of life that i'm leading now. One regret i will always have: 22 nov 2000 - 15 march 2001. These dates will always be etched in my memory forever and ever!


While trying my hardest to sleep yesterday, a very scary thought went through my mind. I started pondering over what if one day, i was to lose my memory! What will i do? What if i forgot my family whom i love dearly? What will it feel like to be all alone in this world although all my family members are there with me? I sincerely hope no one in the world will ever have to go through such an ordeal. But then again, could it be God's way of letting someone start over a new life all over again? Giving one the choice to correct all the wrongs that one might have done in the past! Well, it's still a big mystery? No one knows! But i feel that every moment given to me by God should be cherished and given any chance, i would like to say I love you to everyone dear to me. Friends always say why am i such a mummy's and daddy's girl calling them all the time. well, i just want to say everything that i want to say to them and tell them that i love them cos who knows what tomorrow hold. Lastly, taking this opportunity to say:

I LOVE YOU ALL

to those dear to me!